Your boyfriend can give you money even without you asking him to if you use the techniques I am about to share with you. There are times you need your boyfriend to give you money to clear your bills.
You are stranded or you want him to give you money to buy something you want so bad.
If you want your boyfriend to always give you money you have to know how to handle him.
The way you handle yourself around your boyfriend, the way you talk to him, and how you express yourself to him play a big role when it comes to your boyfriend giving you money.
I know you can just decide to ask him to give you money because you need to buy something or clear your bills and he will help you out.
But the action of directly asking him to give you money now and then will end up being annoying to him.
Your boyfriend will end up feeling like you are using him for money and you are over-dependent on him.
That is if you keep directly asking him to give you money. And that is where the tips and techniques I am about to share with you come in.
This is how to make your boyfriend give you money;
1. Be financially independent.
If you want to make your boyfriend give you money you must be financially independent.
What you need to know is that guys hate it when a woman keeps asking for money from them especially when they have so many financial responsibilities while they are struggling financially.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money, you have to show him that you don’t rely on him.
Your boyfriend needs to see that you aren’t with him for his money. Let your boyfriend know that you can take care of yourself.
This is the first technique that you can use to make your boyfriend give you money now and then.
The moment your boyfriend realizes that you don’t depend on him for money and you don’t care about his money at all, he will feel the need to give you money.
He will give you money to treat yourself and go places you want to be.
Your boyfriend will fight so hard to give you the best experience through the money he has.
He knows that you have money, the only thing you are searching for is experience and a good time with him.
Your boyfriend will always shower you with money because he knows that is the least of your worries.
The moment a man knows that you are struggling financially it will reach a point he will be hesitant to give you money.
Do you know why he won’t give you money? Your boyfriend will only conclude that you will end up being over-dependent on him, you won’t find means to make your own money and you will always cry to him about your financial problems.
Instead of being happy whenever he is around you, all you will talk about are the money problems.
But when you show him that you can take care of yourself, he will want to do more and this includes giving you money without you asking him to.
2. Spend money on him once in a while.
If you want your boyfriend to spend money on you and give you money, you need to start spending money on him.
When you give your boyfriend something, he will want to give you something better than what you have given him.
This is another technique that will make your boyfriend give you money even without you asking him to.
You need to spend money on him once in a while. If you want your boyfriend to buy you gifts you need to start buying him gifts first.
It’s as simple as that. You need to show your boyfriend that you can spend money on him without even thinking about it.
You can spend money on your boyfriend by buying him gifts, taking him out on a date and paying for everything, and offering to pay rent when he doesn’t expect you to.
It doesn’t have to be a super expensive thing for him to realize you can spend money on him.
Buy him a watch or a good T-shirt. If you notice that his keyboard is broken get him one.
Spend money on your boyfriend to get him the things that he truly cares about.
Whenever he is using these things it will always remind him that you are the one who bought it for him.
When your boyfriend notices that you usually spend money on him, he will want to spend money on you too.
If it’s spending money on you, he will want it to be bigger than what you did.
This means that he will always give you money and buy the expensive things that you want so badly as long as he can do it.
Your boyfriend won’t be hesitant when it comes to showering you with money because he knows you always do it for him.
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If you want your boyfriend to spend money on you, give you money, and buy you anything you want, you need to start spending money on him once in a while.
3. Treat him nicer whenever he is around you.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money, you have to treat him nicer. You need to handle him greatly whenever he is around you.
For you to handle your boyfriend greatly, your relationship with him has to be on good terms.
This means that if there is unresolved conflict between the two of you, it’s time for you to start working on those issues.
You need to apologize to him if you did something to hurt his feelings or the people he cares about.
If there is a problem right now in your relationship, sit down with your boyfriend and find a way to solve it.
Ensure that your boyfriend is not angry at you at all.
You are his queen, you need to handle him like a king when he is around if you want him to open his wallet.
Make your man happy and he will also want to make you happy too.
Be romantic and spice things up whenever he is with you. Don’t bore him. Find ways to come up with new things to do just to make him feel super excited.
Handling your boyfriend like this will not only help you to make him give you money but it will strengthen your relationship too.
You also have to make the first move. He is your boyfriend right now. If you don’t want him to get bored being around you, sometimes show him the wild side of you.
When your boyfriend is always happy to be around you, he will always think about you.
He will care about your needs and this means that he will always choose to give you money to ensure you get everything you need.
If you make him happy he will also make you happy.
Use your cards to make him love you more, and this will be a reason for him to give you money even without you asking him.
4. Let him know the projects you are working on.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money this is something else you have to do.
You need to share the projects you are working on with your boyfriend.
If you have a business that you are managing, let him know about it. Talk about how the business is progressing and the challenges you come across.
This will make your boyfriend realize that you are an ambitious woman and you are working towards greater things.
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When he knows that you are super motivated to work on your projects and side hustles to make money to support yourself he will want to support you.
Talking about your businesses with him will also make him realize you are future-oriented.
You are always thinking of finding ways to make money so that you don’t depend on him.
Even if you don’t have any businesses or projects to share with your boyfriend, tell him the business you would like to start.
Show your boyfriend that you don’t want to rely on him at all.
The moment you show your boyfriend that you always try your best to find means to get money, that is when he will always want to support you.
And if we talk about supporting you in your businesses, he will give you the money to start your business and he will always give you money to get yourself anything you want.
When your business is established, you will be financially independent, which is the first point I talked about in this article.
Men need to know where the money they give you go. When they see that you are using the money for good things, they will keep giving you money.
5. Support your boyfriend in his side hustles.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money don’t just sit around and expect he will shower you with cash.
You need to support your boyfriend in his side hustles if you want him to give you money.
Look at what your boyfriend is working on and think of a way you are going to help him earn money.
You need to show your boyfriend that you care about his side hustles and you want to him make more money.
The more money he earns from his side hustles, the more he will feel the need to give you money.
When he earns enough money out of his side hustles, you will always get a cut.
He won’t even think of spending the money without giving you some because you are the reason why he makes that much money.
If your boyfriend is a content creator, always offer to help him to create content.
You can decide to hold his camera if he is a YouTuber. If he is a writer you can choose to help him edit the articles when you are free.
Show your boyfriend that you care about what he does and always offer to support him.
When you support your boyfriend in his side hustles, he will give you money without asking him to.
Deep down he will just consider you as his business partner because you help him a lot.
And it’s through your help that he can finish lots of work.
If this is what you do for your boyfriend, he will always give you money.
6. Write your monthly budget and show it to him.
Your boyfriend cares about you, he doesn’t want you to suffer. The moment you show him that you are going through a tough time he will want to chip in to help you out.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money, you need to be smart about it. You can’t keep asking him to give you money and expect that he will always do it.
Let your boyfriend know the amount of money you use in a month.
Write down your entire monthly budget and show it to him. When your boyfriend sees the amount of money you spend on everything you need in a month and he knows that you don’t make enough money to support yourself, it will click in his head that he has to give you money.
This is like showing your boyfriend that the money you make doesn’t fully cover your monthly expenses.
The moment he realizes that you are finding it hard to clear your bills because you don’t make enough money in a month, he will always give you money.
Your boyfriend will know that you need his help and since you use money wisely, he will always chip in to help you.
This will make your boyfriend give you money even without asking.
It should be a reasonable budget. Don’t draft a budget that is over the amount of money you earn by three times.
He will know for sure that you just want to exploit him and that is why you jot down the entire budget.
The moment he notices that you only want to use his money, he will stop giving you money.
So, you need to be careful when writing down the budget.
7. Use the money he gives you to improve yourself.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money you have to show him that you are using his money to improve yourself.
A man wants to see the results of his investment. If he is investing money in you, he wants to see that his efforts are working out.
If your boyfriend always gives you money don’t just buy anything you feel like because it doesn’t hurt you how much he spends on you.
You need to show your boyfriend that the money he gives you also helps you change your lifestyle and makes you an attractive woman.
Use the money he gives you to start a business, buy yourself amazing clothes that he wants to see you in, and get yourself a good apartment to stay in.
When a man sees that you keep improving when he gives you money, he will keep on giving you money because he wants to see you at your best.
He will not be hesitant to give you money since he knows you are smart enough and you know how to use the money to work for you and not the other way around.
You need to show your boyfriend that his money does more good than harm.
This is another technique you can use to make your boyfriend spend money on you.
8. Let your boyfriend know that you appreciate his financial aid.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money you need to show him that you are always grateful.
You need to show him that you appreciate every penny he gives you.
Men want grateful women.
Your boyfriend will put you on some test before he decides if he wants to spend money on you or not.
This is something you should know; many men test their women’s behavior when it comes to money matters.
Sometimes your boyfriend will just pretend to be broke. You will ask him for money and he will tell you that he doesn’t have anything in his pocket or bank account too.
Some days he will take you out to creepy places.
It’s not that he doesn’t have the money to spoil you and make you smile. He is doing this just to see how you will respond.
He wants to see if you are worthy of his money or if you are just the other types of women he knows.
Your boyfriend will tell you that he is struggling financially and he doesn’t even have cash to afford 3 meals per day.
He will say this to just get your response. You will ask him for a birthday gift and he will bring you something cheaper.
You make more than $4000 a month, but he will give you a $100 gift for your birthday.
These are some of the tests you will come across from your boyfriend just to see the kind of a woman you are.
When he notices that you are always grateful for anything he buys you, the small amount of money that he gives you, this will always push him to give you money.
If you pass his tests he will always give you money.
You need to show your appreciation and gratitude when your boyfriend buys you something.
If he gives you money and it’s not nearly enough to cover bills let him know that you appreciate his help.
This is what will push your boyfriend to work even harder and earn more money than he is making now.
And if he makes money, you will always have your cut even without you asking him.
Men love grateful women, so be that kind of a person and he will always give you money.
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9. Don’t beg him to give you money.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money show him that you don’t even care about his money.
You need to show him that you aren’t even concerned about how much he is making.
Don’t do or say things that will make him realize that you are desperate for his cash.
Don’t beg your boyfriend for money if you want him to always give you money.
When your boyfriend realizes that you don’t care about his money and you aren’t even bothered whether he gives you money or not, that is when he will start giving you money.
It’s as simple as that. If you don’t beg him to give you money, he will give you more money.
If you always ask him to give you money, he won’t give you money.
It works just like that.
So, it doesn’t matter how desperate you are, don’t beg him to give you money.
Don’t cry to him that you are struggling financially and you can’t even pay your bills. But don’t hide it, let him see the reality but don’t beg him to pay your bills and give you money.
This will show your boyfriend that you are a strong woman, you always work hard to pay your bills and you don’t need his help at all.
This will make your boyfriend give you money since you don’t even beg him to help you financially.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money, don’t be a beggar.
10. Don’t let him see that you are exploiting him financially.
A man will never spend money on you when he realizes that you are using him.
The moment a man knows that you only want him for his money, he will stop giving you money.
He is your boyfriend. You need to show him that you love him for who he is and not for the money that he gives you.
I know maybe you need his financial aid so badly because you are stuck. You don’t know what to do.
You have lots of debts and you are trying your best to clear them all.
You need to show your boyfriend that are strong and you are handling it on your own.
Don’t use your problems to rip him off every time. When your boyfriend realizes that you always ask for money from him to clear your bills and get whatever you need, at one point he will feel like you are using him for money.
If the only thing you ask him to give you is money when you meet him after a while, he will conclude that you only want him for his money.
You need to be smart about how you approach him to give you money.
If you keep asking him for money every time and not a day did he hear you say that you managed to clear your bills by yourself, he will conclude you are exploiting him.
The moment your boyfriend feels like you are using him for money and you aren’t even trying anything to help yourself, he will stop giving you money.
And it might be a reason for him to end the relationship. Trust me, guys who are struggling financially don’t want to be exploited for money.
Be careful with the way you address your financial issues with him. Don’t do or say things that will make him conclude that you only want him for money.
11. Ask him for the money early in advance.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money, talk to him early in advance.
When you know that you need money to pay your rent in the coming month, talk to him about it this month.
Just let him know that you would like him to give you money to clear your bills.
Asking early in advance is great because your boyfriend won’t feel pressured by the money request.
But if you ask him too late when he has budgeted how he is going to spend the money it will be harder for him to give in to your request.
The earlier he knows the more time he has to plan and budget for the money you need from him.
Pushing your boyfriend to give you money in an instant and yet he is struggling financially, it will be impossible for him to give in to your needs.
But when he is not pressured because you told him earlier in advance and he promised you he would help you out, he will always do it.
So, if you want money from your boyfriend and you know that he is struggling financially you have to make the money request early in advance.
12. Ask him to support you financially and why.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money because you are in a tough spot, you need to be honest with him.
You don’t need to use any technique to ask your boyfriend for money. He knows and understands your situation.
Let your boyfriend know that you would like him to help you financially because you are finding it hard to clear your bills.
If you don’t have a job right now and you are finding it hard to pay your rent, don’t beat around the bush. Be honest with him.
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When you are in a position where you don’t have the means to support yourself financially, sit down with him and let him know what you are going through.
If your boyfriend cares about you and doesn’t want to see you going through tough financial times, he will always give you money.
He will always choose to pay your bills and take care of you because you are his woman.
Don’t think that he will leave you when you express yourself to him about your financial situation.
Your boyfriend will understand you and he might even help you to find a gig to make money.
Don’t hide any financial issues you have from your boyfriend if you want him to support you.
And sometimes when you want money from him to buy something even if it’s not that important, you need to be honest with him.
Don’t try to pull some tricks to manipulate him into giving you money because when he realizes it will be the end of you receiving money from him or worse he will end the relationship.
Lastly…
If you want your boyfriend to give you money you have to show him that you don’t care about his money.
You have to show him that you don’t expect him to take care of you financially. Let him know that you can pay your bills and buy anything you want.
When your boyfriend knows that you can do anything for yourself because you are financially independent he will feel the need to support you.
He will always give you money because loving you only won’t be enough to make you happy.
Your boyfriend will start using money to give you the best experiences you have never had before in your life.
Don’t beg for money from your boyfriend if you want him to give you money.
Show him that you are strong enough to hustle for the money you need and he will always offer to support you financially.
If you want your boyfriend to give you money, don’t overuse one technique in this article since he will realize that you are only exploiting him.
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