When a guy talks about his future with you it means that he sees a future with you. This guy looks at you and just imagines you with him in the future. You are someone he wants to stick to. He is planning on settling down with you and that is why he talks about his future with you.
Anyway, don’t just jump to the conclusion that he wants to be with you forever when he talks about his future with you.
There are several reasons why a guy may start talking about his future with you.
In this article, I will share with you what it means when a guy talks about his future with you, why he talks about it, and how to respond to him.
What does it mean when he talks about future plans with you?
When a guy talks about future plans with you it means that he is hoping for a future with you, he wants to stick with you, he is seriously into you and he is currently establishing a life that you will be accounted for.
When a guy talks about his future with you it shows that he is considering a future with you.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that he wants a future with you. Talking about his plans with you doesn’t directly mean that he has already made up his mind that you are the person he wants to keep.
Right now it’s an idea that he is fantasizing about and don’t get your hope high that he is getting into the future with you.
Before you conclude that a guy wants to have a future with you the first thing you have to do is observe how he handles you.
The words he says may not mean anything at all if his actions say otherwise.
If he is a guy who expressed his feelings for you, wants you to be more than just friends or you are already together (dating) when he talks about his future with you it means he is thinking of including you in his life.
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You are not someone he just wants to be with for a short term and ends up breaking up with you.
He doesn’t want to play games with you. The part about him talking about his future with you shows that he looks beyond what you have right now.
This guy knows that you are someone he would like to be with. He is sure that you are the one he wants to share a future with.
When you hear a guy talking about a future with you it’s a good sign. It shows that you are not someone he plans to use and dump. This is a good sign if he is a guy you are interested in and want him to be there for you.
If he is a guy you just met, you are getting to know each other and he shows you that he is interested in you but hasn’t expressed what he feels or wants from you; when he talks about his future with you it means he just wants you to know that he is hoping for a long term relationship with you.
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He is talking about his future with you because he wants you to know that he doesn’t want anything casual. What he feels for you isn’t an infatuation.
This is one way of telling you, “If we go deeper you better be serious about me” he doesn’t want to have fun or play games with you.
This is why he talks about his future with you;
1. He wants a serious relationship with you.
When a guy talks about his future with you this is the first thing you should know.
He wants a serious relationship and that is why he started talking about his future with you.
In most cases, when a guy wants to have fun with you (he doesn’t want a serious relationship but something casual or a short-term thing) he will never talk about his future with you.
He will try his level best never to mention the words “future with you” This is because he is not with you to stay.
You are someone he is with for the moment. When he is done with you he will just walk away from you.
When a guy talks about his future with you he wants you to be his girlfriend and commit to him.
He doesn’t want you to be his side chick, a friend with benefits, or just a one-night stand.
This guy knows that you will understand that he expects more from you.
This is also another tricky way of a guy telling you to be with him and commit to him without using the word “Love”.
If a guy starts talking about his future with you and gives you a part to play in it, this shows that he wants a serious relationship with you.
He wants a relationship that will end up turning into something great in the future.
2. He wants to have a future with you.
There is a difference between a guy wanting a future with you and just wanting to date you.
When a guy just wants to date you, nothing is certain here. You aren’t clear to each other about what you all want.
You are around each other because you connect and vibe. This is just a step for you to determine if what you feel for each other is true.
But when a guy talks about his future with you, this means you are over the dating stage. You guys are far from just dating.
Your relationship is at another level and that is why he is talking about his future with you.
If you have been dating for a while and the guy ends up talking about his future with you this shows that he is sure about what he wants from you.
He is sure that he wants to stick with you and has observed and found out that you are the person who will give him the future he is hoping for.
When a guy wants a future with you it shows that he is certain about you. He is sure that you are the person he wants to spend the rest of his time with. He is not thinking of leaving you anytime soon.
The moment a guy wants a future with you he can either start talking about it with you or he will do things that suggests that he wants to stick with you.
Apart from talking about his future with you, he will enlist you in his businesses, introduce you to his family, and even put an engagement ring on your finger.
If a guy talks about his future with you this means that he wants a future with you.
3. He wants you to know that he doesn’t play games.
During the talking stage, a guy trying to show you that he is seriously into you and doesn’t want to play games will start talking about his future with you.
In most cases, these are usually the mature guys who know what they want.
They aren’t just searching to date but they are after someone who is going to be ready to take the relationship into the next step.
A guy who has his life established and seriously wants to put a ring on you after being with you for a few months or years will start talking about his future with you.
And when a guy talks about his future with you early enough when you are getting to know each other, he has observed and noticed that you are mature enough to understand what he is talking about.
The same guys usually start by talking about their future after knowing a little bit about you to filter out any women who are not ready for a serious relationship.
When a guy talks about his future with you and you aren’t ready for something like that at the moment, what you will do is pull yourself out of that situation.
Or you will tell him that you don’t want to think of a future right because it’s too early.
When a guy talks about his future with you it shows that he doesn’t want a woman who will play games with him.
He wants a woman who is ready to commit and knows what she wants.
It’s one way of telling you, “I don’t want to play games with you, I want something real with you.”
4. He wants to impress you.
Not all guys who will talk about their futures with you want you to be in it.
Some guys will just talk about their future with you just to impress you, lure you into their trap, and use you.
And that is why I earlier said that some guys will just talk about their future with you as an idea that they are fantasizing about.
You have to be careful not to be fooled by any guy who talks about his future with you.
Men will use every sneaky way they can to get you to give what they want from you.
In some situations, when a man talks about his future with you it’s a lie that he is smearing you with.
For instance, if he is a guy you just met a few days ago and he doesn’t even know your last name, when he talks about his future with you this is just a lie.
Why would he talk about his future with someone that he doesn’t even know?
Does it make sense to want a future with someone you just met a few days ago and you know nothing about?
When you come across these kinds of guys just know that they want to impress you and make you think that they are focused.
They want to lie to you and lure you into their trap to use you and dump you.
Not all guys who talk about their futures with you are true to what they say.
Some don’t even mean it at all.
A guy will talk about his future with you and doesn’t even have his life figured out now. He is just someone who is confused and doesn’t know the direction of his life.
Before you conclude that a guy wants a future with you when he talks about it, you need to check out which kind of guy is saying these words.
Also, if he is just a guy you have been dating for less than a month and he is already talking about his future with you, don’t take his word for it.
He just wants to impress you for the moment. You are a woman he is trying to please and make you realize that he is future-oriented.
NOT ALL GUYS WHO TALK ABOUT THEIR FUTURE WITH YOU, WANT TO KEEP YOU, SOME JUST WANT TO IMPRESS AND THEN USE YOU.
He is talking about his future with you so that you be open to his suggestions and let yourself loose thinking that he will always have your back no matter what happens; when you get pregnant or get what he wants he runs away from you.
5. He wants you to be sure of what he feels for you.
Some guys will talk about their future with you just to make you realize what they feel for you.
When you know that he thinks of including you in his future you will be sure that he wants to be with you.
You will conclude that he is in love with you and it will be easier for you to make up your mind about him.
When a guy expresses his feelings to you and tries to show you that he wants something more from you and goes to the extent of talking about his future with you this means that he wants you to know that he is sure about what he feels for you.
He is into you, he wants you and you are the woman he wants to stick with and that is why he is talking about his future with you.
If a guy opens up to you and talks about his future with you the only thing you will conclude is that he wants something tangible with you.
He is in love with you and that is why he wants you to stick around till you see his future and be a part of it.
6. He wants to know what you feel about him.
Guys are smart when it comes to pursuing women. When a guy wants to know what you feel about him, the first thing he will do is observe how you treat him and handle yourself around him.
The second thing he will do is ask you questions to get to know what you feel for him.
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The third thing that he will do is just talk about random things that will make you give him your reaction.
When a guy wants to know what you feel about him and how you perceive your relationship with him, he will start talking about his future with you.
When a guy talks about his future with you and deep down you don’t want to stick with him, the reaction you will give him will be enough to know what you feel about him.
Also, when he says he wants to impregnate you and deep down you know you don’t want to end up with him in the future, you will say something or do something that will make him realize what you feel for him.
Your response or the reaction you give him will be enough for him to realize if you are thinking of sticking with him or not.
If you don’t want a future with him you might end up opposing what he is saying. That is what he will use to know whether you want to stick with him or not.
How to respond when a guy talks about his future with you
When a guy talks about his future with you and you are sure that it’s someone you want to stick to let him know that you would love to be in his future, but if he is not someone you want a future with, tell him that you aren’t ready for a future with him.
You have to know that when you tell a guy that you aren’t ready for a future with him it means you aren’t willing to commit to him at the moment or you aren’t sure if he is someone you want to stick to.
And when you tell a guy you are ready to have a future with him it means you are signing up for a serious relationship with him, you will commit to him and be ready to wear his engagement ring in the future.
Lastly…
When a guy talks about his future with you it means he is thinking of including you in his future.
If he is your boyfriend, he wants a future with you, but if he is just someone you are getting to know each other, he is thinking about having a future with you.
This also shows that he is interested in you and that is why he is talking about his future with you.
Don’t let a guy fool you when he says he wants a future with you. Some guys will talk about their future with you just to manipulate you into giving them what they want.
Some will only want to use you and it’s not that they want to stick with you.
If a guy talks about his future with you and you want that to happen you should respond positively to give him the impression that you want the same thing.
On the other side, if you don’t want the same thing you should be honest with him.
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