Best Friend Talking To Your Boyfriend Behind Your Back: Why

Your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back. She calls and text him when you are not around.

Suddenly, there are so many secrets between your best friend and you. You are wondering what is happening.

She doesn’t tell you things like she used to, she is all of a sudden so close to your boyfriend than ever.

You have realized that several times she is talking to him behind your back.

What is going on here? Is your best friend dating your boyfriend secretly or it’s just something they share that she doesn’t want you to know about?

In this article, I will share facts with you that will open your eyes and enable you to know what is going on here.

What does it mean when your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back?

When your best friend talks to your boyfriend behind your back it means she is hiding something from you. It can be she is telling him something that she doesn’t want you to know about or she is snatching your boyfriend away from you.

If your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back it just shows that there is something she doesn’t want you to know about.

Your best friend may be feeding your boyfriend negative information about you just to ruin your relationship or she is secretly bonding with him.

She doesn’t want you to know about anything that is going on and that is why she can’t talk to your guy when you are around.

Something is going on that your best friend doesn’t want you to know about.

Let me open your eyes to what is going on here.

This is why your best friend talks to your boyfriend behind your back;

1. Your best friend is hitting on him.

Your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back because she is hitting on him.

This is the first possible reason why she talks to him behind your back. I know you may not want to see that your best friend is trying to snatch your boyfriend from you.

Your best friend may be into your boyfriend. She is trying everything she can to take him away from you.

She knows that you won’t be happy when you realize that she is hitting on him.

That is why she talks to your boyfriend when you are not around and in secrecy.

She knows that the moment you realize that she is taking your boyfriend away from you, it will ruin her plans.

Before you conclude that your best friend is hitting on your boyfriend, you need to observe the relationship your boyfriend has with your best friend.

Has your boyfriend been so secretive whenever your best friend is around?

Did you notice any strange or romantic spark between your boyfriend and best friend?

Is your boyfriend so close to your best friend than he was before?

These are some of the questions you should ask yourself before you jump to the conclusion that your best friend is snatching your guy away from you.

If it’s true that your boyfriend has been closer to your best friend than he has ever been, this should let you know that there is something fishy going on.

Your best friend is hitting on your boyfriend and that is why the secrecy between her and your boyfriend.

She knows that the moment you realize that something is going on, you will end up ruining everything.

And that is why she is talking to your boyfriend behind your back.

2. She is hiding something from you.

Another case is this, your best friend is hiding some information from you and that is why he talks to your boyfriend behind your back.

The information that your best friend is hiding from you is sensitive and that is why she is talking to your boyfriend secretly.

There are two sides to the coin; first, it can be that your best friend is sharing information with your boyfriend that she doesn’t want you to know.

Your best friend has sensitive information that she is sharing with your boyfriend that is not meant for your ears.

And that is why she talks to your boyfriend only when you are not around or when you are not aware.

The information your best friend is sharing with your boyfriend may be destructive or she is just trying to protect you from it.

She is talking to your boyfriend behind your back because when you know the information she is feeding to him, you might end your friendship with her.

The side of the coin; can be that your best friend knows incriminating information about your boyfriend.

Your boyfriend is trying hard to keep your best friend quiet. She doesn’t want her to tell you about what she knows.

You think that your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back, but it’s the other way around.

Your best friend can only talk to your boyfriend secretly because she doesn’t want you to know what is going on.

So, your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back to figure things out with him before you get to know everything.

Also, it can be that your boyfriend is convincing your best friend not to say anything to you about what she knows.

And that is why your best friend can only talk to your boyfriend in secret.

3. She doesn’t want you to know she is talking to him.

Your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back because she doesn’t want you to know that they talk.

It can be that nothing is going on at all. Your best friend knows that you are so sensitive.

You are overprotective, jealous, and insecure. The moment you notice your her talking to your boyfriend, you will conclude the worst.

This might result in an end to the friendship between the two of you.

Your best friend doesn’t want you to have the idea that she into your boyfriend.

She knows you better and that is why she only talks to your boyfriend without you knowing.

It’s the drama that she is avoiding and that is why she is talking to him behind your back.

She knows you will think of so many things when she talks with your boyfriend right in front of you.

And that is why all the secrecy.

Maybe, nothing is going on between your boyfriend and best friend.

Not all friends are bad, some are just cautious not to create any tension in the relationship.

4. She is messing up with your relationship.

The worst side now, your best friend may not be happy now that you are in a relationship and she is single.

She has been lonely while you are happy in a relationship. She is jealous.

Your best friend wants to destroy your relationship and that is why she is doing what you see right now.

She is talking to your boyfriend behind your back to slowly mess up with your relationship.

It can be that she is sharing lies with your boyfriend just to create negative tension between the two of you.

She is spreading lies to make your boyfriend hate you. All this will result in conflict in your relationship.

Also, she may be seducing your boyfriend. It’s not that she loves him.

She just wants you to see that your boyfriend is pulling her closer for you to get angry and end the relationship.

The moment you realize that your boyfriend is talking to her while smiling at the corner, you will just conclude that something is going on.

The result is that you will end the relationship because your boyfriend is doing something fishy with your best friend.

Without thinking hard, you will end up ending your relationship because of what your best friend has been doing.

If you don’t trust your boyfriend the only thing you will conclude is that he is cheating on you with your best friend thus the secrecy.

This is what your best friend wants you to conclude.

You end your relationship because you think he is cheating on you.

What to do when your best friend is talking to your boyfriend behind your back

The first thing you should do when you notice your best friend talking to your boyfriend behind your back is to confront your guy. Find out what is going on. You should note that your boyfriend won’t be snatched away from you unless he wants to.

And after you have talked to your boyfriend about it, you will have to turn to your best and be real with her.

Let her know that you are not happy with what she has been doing.

If nothing is going on between your best friend and your boyfriend, he will be honest with you.

Ask your boyfriend to end the communication with your best friend, if he will make a big deal out of it and he still wants to talk to her behind your back, this should let you know that something is going on.

Lastly…

Let your boyfriend know that you are not happy with what is going on. Ask your boyfriend to end what is going on because it makes you uncomfortable.

Talk to your friend, if she will make a big deal out of it, that will just clarify that something is going on.

That is not the friend you should embrace. Cut her off and focus on your relationship.

Who can you blame for what is going on right now? You brought your best friend closer to your boyfriend and now she wants to ruin your relationship.

But what you need to know is that if your boyfriend truly loves you, nothing is going to happen no matter how hard your best friend will pursue him.

Let your best friend know you don’t entertain what she is doing and she should stay far away from your guy.

If not, you should just cut her off.

Your boyfriend should support you in this, if not, then know that he is also into her.